Wednesday, May 30, 2007

3. My Personal Query

In this section, you will be able to find the answer of your query. Please have patience. We are building this blog. Meanwhile, you please feel free to send us your query at takias dot rakras @ gmail dot com with the subject line "This is my query" and include the following details


1. Nick Name: We do not need your actual name. To make it anonymous, you may include a nick name according to your choice. However, there may arise confusion with the same nick name, so when we will upload your answer, we will send you the serial number of your query and the individual identification number. If this is for the first time, you are sending your query to us, you will receive this unique number. Please include this number in your next queries to get priority.
2. Your country of residence:
3. Your age:
4. Your education:
5. Your profession:
6. Your query:
7. Your Individual Identification Number (if any):


Please maintan the above-mentioned format, otherwise, your query may not be attended. Please allow us a minimum of 72 hours to get back to you.

We will use your nick name along with your query in the comment section. But right now we are strictly discouraging you to post any comment regarding your query. All other comments are welcome, but not anything related to personal query till we develop the blog at its fullest potential.

2. What Role You Can Play?

You are valuable to us. This blog is entirely made for you. So quite naturally you are the one who can play the most important role here. Follow the description, and find the suitable category that fits your requirements, and let us know, we will be happy to assist you accordingly.


  • Client: As a client, you can place query regarding your personal life. Please remember, we are from psychology backgrounds, therefore, we are not psychics or the one who predicts future. We only deal with problems that you are experiencing in your personal life. If you have any query, please drop us a mail at takias dot rakras @ gmail dot com with the subject line "This is my query" and include the following details
  1. Nick Name: We do not need your actual name. To make it anonymous, you may include a nick name according to your choice. However, there may arise confusion with the same nick name, so when we will upload your answer, we will send you the serial number of your query and the individual identification number. If this is for the first time, you are sending your query to us, you will receive this unique number. Please include this number in your next queries to get priority.
  2. Your country of residence:
  3. Your age:
  4. Your education:
  5. Your profession:
  6. Your query:
  7. Your Individual Identification Number (if any):

Please maintan the above-mentioned format, otherwise, your query may not be attended. Please allow us a minimum of 72 hours to get back to you.

  • Volunteer Counsellor: If you are from psychology background and are willing to provide this blog your valuable time, you are more than welcome. We will be glad to hear from you. Please drop us a mail at takias dot rakras @ gmail dot com with the subject line "Interested to Join as a Volunteer Member" and describe why you are interested to join us.

  • Advertiser: As you might understand, there is nothing FREE in this world. The most precious thing is sensitivity towards others, to keep valuable time for others. We are planning to generate revenue from advertising in near future so that we can continue our service for FREE and become able to make this baby blog to the BEST MATURE COUNSELLING BLOG in near future.

  • Fans: As a fan, you may distribute the link http://yourownfriend.blogspot.com/ to each and everyone you know. Do it only if you like the idea.

1. Your Own Friend

All of us are more-or-less experiencing crtical stressors in our personal, social and professional life. In some cases, we are not enough comfortable to share it with our near and dear ones because of some personal rigidity or difficulties. However, we are gradually sinking down under the pressure, no doubt.

This blog aims at solving personal problems that an individual experiences in his or her daily lives. This is an ABSOLUTELY FREE SERVICE. We do not charge anything for it under any circumstances. If you like our blog, keep coming and recommend to all of your friends and relatives. That's all we need from you.

This blog is essentially my personal effort as a student of applied psychology. I am working as an academic writer for my living and working as a volunteer counsellor in an NGO working for people suffering from addiction problem. Apart from that, I am also providing service as a psychotherapeutic counsellor.

Thanks to my husband whose continuous support and committment I am receiving in almost all the dreams I am seeing and dreaming about to materialise in practice. He is also providing his time as a volunteer counsellor in the same organization.

Quite obviously, as you might understand, we are at our infancy with this blog, however, we will try our best to implement all our expertise to make it a valuable place to all our readers. We need your encouragement and support to progress.

Thanks to all of you...

Mr. Saikat Sarkar
Mrs. Sudipa Sarkar

Please feel free to check the section "What role you can play?". If you like to join us as a volunteer member, feel free to send us email at takias dot rakras @ gmail dot com with the subject line "Interested to Join as a Volunteer Member" and describe why you are interested to join us.